Society has definitely had an effect upon you when it comes to agreeableness. How do you feel when you agree with others? Does it make you feel good, or does it make you needy? There is a big majority of you which have been or still are a “yes man/woman “.
- if you feel good then you are on the right track and by saying yes you are not compromising yourself
- If it does not fulfil somewhere along the line you are compromising yourself by not yes to the wrong things. There is a very big chance that you have created a habit of being agreeable to eve thing therefore you will feel fatigued every time you are compromising yourself .
If it does not fulfil you then i recommend an isolation to self-purpose:
- Isolate yourself from everyone until you will be able to fully judge everything before agreeing to anything. Simply say no as many people as you need , for as long as you have to in order to feel in control with yourself