One of the hardest things you can do is finding your purpose, the ladder you want to climb. We have a limited time on this planet therefore you do want to find the right ladder to climb.
If you feel you are lost or you have not found your purpose, I do completely recommend giving this book a read. Law of attraction by Jack Canfield systematically breaks down how you can find it and he provides structure in the exercises you have to complete.
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